Elder Care Job in San Diego, California

I'm looking for a live-in, permanent caregiver with the ability to cook, sometimes gourmet as I use to cook in several restaurants around the country. Do you like gourmet? Though I am disabled I am still very active. I'm an outgoing person who is very kind and loving with no biases. I prefer a male caregiver cause there's some lifting involved; bathing, transfers, etc. I am also very discreet and personal. I can include more after hearing back from you. My main concerns are trust and dependability.