Require Care for 30 Year Old Special Needs Male

We require care for our 30 year old special needs son who is also ill. We require support with the following tasks (but not limited to): feeding and bathing, helping to get dressed, light cooking and cleaning, laundry as required, providing ongoing support, company, friendship and companionship. We would prefer a live-in or alternatively we would be willing to be flexible with someone who lived nearby that was able to stay over on some frequency. Pay is negotiable based on number of years of experience, matching skills & personality and availability.