Elder Care Job in Point Pleasant, New Jersey

Hello my name is Lisa. My Dad is in need of personal hygiene assistance. He is paralyzed on left side of his body. I need someone to help me transfer him into the shower and dress him. He does not feel comfortable w a male caring for him. Im looking for someone 2× a week and occasionally putting him to bed on weekdays to give me a little break. I prefer someone local to area because I'm not sure what eve I will need you. His speech is very impaired..MUST BE PATIENT and allow him to express himself in his way. Reference a MUST. Experience a must Thank you