Elder Care Job in Hanford, California

My husband is a diabetic, can barely walk due to neuropathy and has some dementia. Seems prone to falling at times and only uses his walker in the house, otherwise we use a wheel chair. I am beginning to be afraid to leave him alone. Also I have multiple problems with my back..herniated disks, pinched nerve, etc. cannot lift him. I can only talk him through getting up. Eventually, I may have to have surgery on my back and do not have any backup help to care for him. He is also incontinent, no feelings in his legs.